NEGATIVITY

NEGATIVITY:- 

What is Negativity?

Negativity is the tendency to be downbeat, disagreeable and skeptical. It is a pessimistic attitude that always expects the worst. Negative outcomes are bad like loosing a game, getting a disease suffering an injury or getting something stolen.

The term Negativity is being used only for human being, therefore it is clear that negativity has something to do with human condition whether it is negative thinking, negative behavior, negative aura or negative presence.

It seems easier at times to be negative and criticizing towards things or people. But satisfaction or contentment is some other thing which can't be earned in that way. It is that state of mind when a person always thinks that something bad would happen to him/her.

Negativity is a very relative term. We might feel positive about things which someone else may feel negative about. It is assuming the worst without any proof.Negative thinking will produce nothing or a negative outcome.

Difference between Positivity and Negativity :- 

In simple words differences of Positivity and Negativity can be said as below :- 

1. Hurting others is negative, helping others is positive.
2. Non-sense is negative , common sense is positive.
3. Encroachment  into others freedom is negative, respecting their freedom is positive.
4. Ego is negative , self respect is positive.
5. Hatred is negative, love is positive.
6. Shouting is negative, smiling is positive
7. War is negative , peace is positive
8. Destructing is negative , constructing is positive
9. Being harsh is negative , Being cool is positive
10. Comparing is negative , compassion is positive
11. Cursing is negative , blessing is positive
12. Carelessness is negative , caring is positive
13. Wickedness is negative , wisdom is positive
14. Greed is negative , need is positive
15. Fear is negative , Hope is positive
16. Drinking alcohol is negative, Drinking water is positive
17. Abusing is negative, Constructive criticism is positive
18. Deceiving is negative , obedience is positive
19. Power is negative , responsibility is positive
20. Littering is negative, cleaning is positive
21. Breaking is negative , making is positive
22. Being idle is negative , moving is positive
23. Being pessimists is negative , Being optimist is positive
24. Arguing with idiots is negative , discussing with good people is positive
25. Late nights are negative , early mornings are positive
26. Excuses are negative , excercise is positive
27. Reading News feed on FB is negative , reading news paper is positive
28. Watching stupid debates is negative , watching Ted talks are positive
29. Trusting fake people is negative, believing in yourself is positive
30. Fake relationships are negative, Good relationships are positive

31. Positivity brings you up.

32. Negativity brings you down.
33. Positive habits hold you up.
34. Negative habits hold you down

           “Positive anything is better than negative nothing”

NEGATIVITY - Good or Bad ?

Negativity as a mentality is not good. It makes a life complicated and unhappy. But negativity to some respect such as disbelief in unknown people and things, may be good.Verification before trust is good. 

But as a whole, one should have a positive and optimistic approach towards life.A half vacant glass is to be viewed as half filled. Always involved in creative activities. An idle brain is the workshop of the devil. Mix with only positive minded people. Negative people make you negative.

Great men are used to changing the adverse situation into a favourable one. This is by dint of their positive attitude, positive thinking. We common people also try to follow the great men to some extent.When we are ill, we cannot go out. 

Our normal activities are hampered. We can utilize this forced leave to study and prepare for the examination. In our personal loss, we may consider our stake and loss in the light of the unlimited universe. This is positive thinking. This is the positive approach towards life. This is positivity.

Negativity can lead to poor mental health. People can become depressed or anxious. It leads to feelings of hopelessness. It can ultimately lead to suicide. People can start drinking excessively or being using drugs because of the feelings of hopelessness.

Reasons for increasing NEGATIVITY:-

It has better been learnt that Negativity is  increasing to some people day by day.  Reasons for increasing Negativity in major percentage of people are as follows :-

                            

1. Some people believe in self rightness and unwilling to listen to their well wishes.
2. They are addicted of drugs.
3. They believe in superstation blindly.
4. Suffering from depression.
5. Sentiment of domination is higher among them.
6. Ignorance where intervention is required.
7. Intervention where ignorance is required
8. Forgotten of consciousness or soul without which body is useless.
9. Expectation of lot from life, people and ourselves .   

10. Excess positivity- Sometimes makes the person over smart , over confident and proudy etc.

11. Excess Negativity- Brings Depression, anxiety, anger, fear of missing and lower self- esteem etc.              

          It's better to understand the disease rather than taking medicines.

How to overcome NEGATIVITY :-

      

     Following steps may be taken to  to forget negative thoughts and negative people :-

1. Daily meditation.
2. Feed your mind with a good source of information in the morning.
3. Take care of your inner world.
4. Whenever a negative thought came in your mind on the spot change that thought  into positive so that every time you do it became the habit of mind to create the positive thoughts.
5. Once to practice the forgetting negative thoughts then you will not be required to forget the negative people. It works automatically.
6. Take responsibility and make yourself busy.
7. To develope reading habit in yourself.
8. Make  habit of"Early to bed and early to rise with morning walk.
9. Meet some person of your favour.
10. Believe on Yourself. Once you start believing in your Abilities, negativity will be ruled out.
11. Learn from your negativity and transform the situation to the positivity.

Some quoted lines suggested to be followed :-

1. Negative thoughts will destroy you. Always do your best to keep a positive attitude.

2. Negativity is not the way to go.
3. Just say no to Negativity.
4. Don't be a victim of Negative self talk. Remember, you are listening.
5. Negative mind will never give you a Positive life.
6. Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from Negativity.
7. Negativity is a thief which steals happiness.

8. Stop the Negativity and control your creativity.

           

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